If she doesn't seem into you...she probably ISN'T!
All my beautiful female readers will probably agree with this: when you ladies say no to a man, it almost always means NO!
When women are out, whether it's a girls night or not, they're like men and want good conversation, a few laughs, some dancing, a few drinks and some may even want a one night stand. But guys, stop wasting your time with the wrong girl for you.
How many of you guys are at a bar/club and try to speak to a woman? All of us. But how many of you feel like you're forcing answers out of those women? Probably a few. If a female is at a bar and giving you short answers and not asking you anything, take a hint: she doesn't like you.
Have you guys ever bought a girl a drink, you're both dancing a little bit and she begins to slowly move back towards her friends? Take a hint: she used you to get a free drink.
This one is bad no matter how drunk you men may be. If you are out, dancing and grinding a girl from behind without saying one word to her, you sir are a coward with no confidence and probably a desperate pervert. On behalf of all ladies, take a hint: she thinks you're gross.
What about that time that you were out and you thought the conversation was going really well, you're both enjoying some drinks (that you fella are paying for) and she throws into a story that she has a boyfriend. Take a hint: she's either lying or she truly does have a boyfriend. Either way, you're not getting what you want.
If you're a nice guy, have great conversational skills, walk up to a woman and she just isn't feeling it, do yourself a favour and look in the mirror. While there ask yourself: Was I good looking enough for that girl? Be honest with yourself and you'll find that 80% of the time, she's out of your league. Accept the fact that she is thinking one of two things. First she may think you're cute but just not her type (yes guys, that is possible. Women don't have penis' and wouldn't fuck anything in the room like us dirt bags). Second she thinks you look like you got beat by a frying pan and are down right UG-LYYYY! Accept it.
One final note. If you go up to a woman and she isn't into it at all for whatever reason, there is about a 99% chance that you will not be able to convince her otherwise. It's over. Leave her alone. Go harass some other broads in the bar. Leave that girl alone. She is NOT INTO YOU!
Thanks for dropping by,
Rick Perch
"Hey! Teacher! Leave those girls alone!" I think Pink Floyd was talking about foreigners in Korea way back when....I agree with everything buddy but one thing..
ReplyDelete~If you're a nice guy, have great conversation skills, walk up to a woman and she just isn't feeling it, do yourself a favour and look in the mirror. While there ask yourself: Was I good looking enough for that girl?~
I honestly believe some girls just aren't trying to get spoken to sometimes. They just wanna have a drink with their friend and could care less who comes up. At least that's how I rationalize my rejections. I sleep well at night.